By: Ahmed ELNAHAS – Montopoli, March 8th
2014.
Today, March 8th
is “Women’s Day”. By now you should know the origin of the feast,
which is not my concern here. In that day, some would offer ‘HER’ the
traditional mimosa.. Some will settle for a warm hug.. Others a gift or maybe a cosy romantic
dinner.. However, most women prefer outing alone, or with other women, to relax
away from the consuming usual love/hate relationships. I decided to forward my
best wishes to all ‘my’ women (please don’t misunderstand or misinterpret me or my
intentions) this way.
Whether in New
York or deep in the African deserts; collective popular conscience everywhere
retain these two terms directly, and exclusively, related to ‘Masculine
behaviour’. Yet, in our modern times, such understanding become totally
inappropriate, even though it is rapidly growing parallel to the new sweeping tidal
wave of Xenophobic Extreme Right
movements energised by Fascist
Nationalism, and its counterpart (maybe even ally) Religious Fascism.
Originally, as
you may know, the term is due to a French soldier – Nicolas Chauvin – who fought the Napoleonic Wars and ended up
badly wounded. Even after the abdication of Napoleon; Chauvin remained a
fanatical Bonapartist. His single-minded blind devotion to his cause against
general neglect and public harassment, allowed the term “Chauvinism” its widely spread use.
By extension, it has come to include an
extreme and unreasoning partisanship on
behalf of any group to which one belongs, especially when the partisanship
includes ill intentions, malice and hatred towards rival groups. In addition, we
find that “Male Chauvinism” is the
belief that men are superior to women; which mostly is used associated with “Misogyny”: the attitude of total
aversion and/or repulsion towards women.
Chauvinism, as a male superiority concept,
is a classic of the ‘Jewish’ and ‘Muslim’ traditions. We can distinguish it in
the Patriarchal structures in the Torah and the Koran; also like many oriental cultures and traditions do, as in
India, China and Japan: where male intellectuals hold, and spouse, Misogynic
views openly.
If we try to define the causes of Chauvinism, as a behaviour, we can dig them out from the 1976 Sherwyn Woods’
study about the Dynamics of Male
Chauvinism. The study revealed that:
“Male chauvinism was studied in the psychoanalytic therapy of 11 men. It
refers to the maintenance of fixed beliefs and attitudes of male superiority,
associated with overt or covert depreciation of women. Male chauvinism was found to represent an attempt to
ward off anxiety and shame arising from one or more of four prime sources:
1.
unresolved infantile strivings and regressive wishes,
2.
hostile envy of women,
3.
oedipal anxiety, and
4. power and dependency conflicts related to masculine
self-esteem.
Mothers were more important than fathers in the development of male chauvinism, and
resolution was sometimes associated with decompensation in wives”.
Symmetrically,
women as well started to develop a similar attitude known as “Female Chauvinism” that critics normally
deliberately use in relation to certain aspects of “Feminism”. If you want to elaborate on that issue, I suggest you
look for a book entitled “Female
Chauvinist Pigs” written by the second-wave feminist Ariel Levy, in which she argues that many young women in the United States and beyond
are replicating male chauvinism and older misogynist stereotypes.
I will not comment
the issue any further.. I just want to tell every woman:
“Happy women’s day; enjoy every bit of it; and remain
certain that I understand your frustration and anxiety from what you and I know
for sure: Man is not superior.. Was never superior, and will never be!! If men
have become what you claim to be; don’t forget that you made him that way.. He
has always been your son before becoming your adopted husband, companion,
friend, lover…or whatever!!”.
Pass On The Word.
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